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Mental & Mindfulness

Bedtime Gratitude Reflection

A gentle practice of acknowledging three good things that shifts your mind toward contentment

5-7 minutes

This simple mindfulness practice involves mentally reviewing your day and identifying three specific things you're grateful for. Unlike general gratitude lists, this technique requires recalling specific moments and savoring the positive feelings associated with them. The practice redirects attention from worries about the future to appreciation of the present and recent past.

How To Do It

  1. 1

    Lie in your sleep position and take a few deep, settling breaths.

  2. 2

    Recall the first thing from your day you're grateful for, replaying the moment in detail.

  3. 3

    Notice the positive feeling that arises and stay with it for 30-60 seconds.

  4. 4

    Move to the second thing, again replaying the specific moment and savoring the feeling.

  5. 5

    Identify the third thing, spending time with the associated positive emotions.

  6. 6

    Let your mind rest in the warm feeling of appreciation as you drift toward sleep.

The Science Behind It

Gratitude practices increase dopamine and serotonin production, the brain's 'feel-good' neurotransmitters. Research published in Applied Psychology: Health and Well-Being found that participants who practiced gratitude before bed fell asleep faster and slept longer. The practice reduces pre-sleep worry by shifting attention from threat-focused to reward-focused mental content.

Tips

  • Focus on small, specific moments rather than large, general things (a kind smile, perfect coffee, sunset).

  • Include at least one item about your own actions or qualities to build self-compassion.

  • If the day was difficult, look for tiny bright spots — they're always there.

  • Write your three items in a journal beside your bed to track patterns and deepen the practice.

Best For

Falling asleepStress reliefEvening wind-downSleep quality

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