Bedtime Gratitude Reflection
A gentle practice of acknowledging three good things that shifts your mind toward contentment
A time-based framework that prepares your body and mind for sleep throughout the day
The 10-3-2-1 rule is a behavioral framework that structures your day for optimal sleep. The guidelines are: no caffeine 10 hours before bed, no food or alcohol 3 hours before bed, no work or stressful activities 2 hours before bed, and no screens 1 hour before bed. By creating clear boundaries around sleep-disrupting activities, you create a runway for natural sleepiness to emerge.
Calculate your target bedtime and work backwards to set your boundaries.
Set an alarm 10 hours before bed as your caffeine cutoff (if you sleep at 11pm, stop caffeine at 1pm).
Finish dinner and avoid alcohol 3 hours before bed to allow digestion.
Establish a 2-hour buffer before bed free from work emails, difficult conversations, or planning.
Turn off all screens (phone, TV, computer) 1 hour before bed and engage in calming activities.
Use the final hour for relaxation techniques like reading, stretching, or meditation.
Each time boundary addresses a specific sleep disruptor: caffeine has a 5-7 hour half-life, eating close to bedtime raises core temperature and disrupts circadian rhythms, cognitively stimulating activities increase cortisol, and blue light suppresses melatonin production. Research shows following these guidelines can reduce sleep onset latency by 15-30 minutes and improve sleep architecture.
Start with just the 1-hour screen rule if implementing all four feels overwhelming.
For the alcohol guideline: alcohol may help you fall asleep but fragments sleep later in the night.
During your screen-free hour, dim household lights to 30-50% to support melatonin production.
Adjust timing based on personal sensitivity — some people need a 12-hour caffeine cutoff.
A gentle practice of acknowledging three good things that shifts your mind toward contentment
A mindful journey through your body that cultivates deep awareness and releases tension
A guided meditation that takes you to the edge of sleep while maintaining awareness